You have just found out about the affair.
You are in excruciating shock.
The heartache is unbearable.
You could be at breaking point.
What’s going to happen to your family? Your home?
Should you let them stay at home or insist they leave? Or should you leave? All you want to do is curl up in a ball crying, hide away from the world and be a million miles from them or anyone.
Is it time for lawyers? You just want to beat the heck out of them with an acrimonious bitter legal action – take him to the cleaners!
STOP – Before you do call lawyers think about this:
At the very outset of the legal process you will each have to make at least $10,000 even $20,000 to $30,000 in advance payment to two separate lawyers to draw up the battle lines and work out how much each of you will lose – that is an initial payment of $20,000, $40,000, even $60,000 gone forever, dead money – with much more dead money to follow. – to work out how much you will each lose.
If you have substantial assets and income then you can expect that amount to grow rapidly to $100,000, $200,000 or way….way more…EACH.
The more the lawyers know about your financial capacity the more they are involved and the more bitter and stressful the fight – and it goes on and on – gets a life of its own – sometimes over years!
It becomes all about the money – both of you lose. Only the lawyers win.
What about your beautiful family – your kids?
So how about this option instead? A VERY LOW – risk option with huge potential for repair – in fact over 90% chance of repair? At the very least to shift into a low angst …. separation communication mode. At the absolute best to rescue and repair your marriage. Recover from the emotional wound and restore deep loving warmth and connection. Imagine that.
For less than your combined advance payments to lawyers you can come into my safe, masterful and caring hands and figure out if you want to stay together, if you can stay together and if you can repair and fully recover from the shock and hurt…..then build a closer connection and stronger marriage than you had before.
96% of my couples do.
They heal, repair and re-connect building a stronger marriage than they had before.
Yes, and all within 3 months with skilled masterful guidance and for just a small fraction of the dead money thrown down the drain with lawyers – only to find out how much is going to be lost.
That’s right just 3 months – NOT years of legal battles and multiple tens of thousands of dollars of dead money.
Let alone years of enduring the stress, acrimony and bitterness throughout the fight. If you think marriage is hard then you will be bowled over by how hard breaking up is. Divorce is hard, extremely hard.
Life is too short. Choose the safe harbor in your raging storm. Minimize the damage and repair quickly. Only 3 months – from your new beginning together.
Reach Out. Book a call with me here https://go.oncehub.com/DeeTozer
*I work with a very small number of couples to ensure you get the dedicated time and specialized attention tailored to your specific needs. So don’t delay. Make sure you are one of those couples.
Reach Out. Book that call with me here https://go.oncehub.com/DeeTozer
Don’t put it off – each day passing is an agony that can be eased quickly by taking this first step. There is no charge for this 45 minute connecting call as we work out if we are a good fit to repair your marriage and secure your future.
Of course you can be assured of Strictest Confidentiality and Discretion. These calls are done on the most secure Zoom platform, ir voice call on;ly then we can use Whatsapp or Signal which are recognized as the most secure platforms.
